Every morning I wake up between 04:30 and 5:00, and then head out to the gym for about 60 to 90 minutes. Aside from the obvious health benefits this routine is likely to bring, I find that there are consequential benefits which I wasn’t acutely aware of until I gave it more thought.
This habit has some unintended benefits such as quiet ‘mind time’, no social media, no email, no phone calls and so on. I simply get to the gym, and exercise; which requires very little serious thought. All one really needs to think about is what exercises to do, for how long, with how many sets & reps… this is fairly mundane and allows you to effectively ‘turn off’ your brain for a while. I know this because there are some days when I do have something on my mind which is bothering me – an impending work deadline, or a family matter for example – and my workout ends up being sub-par because my mind is not turned off from the outside world.
I must add that going to the gym this early in the morning is a large part of the reason why it succeeds at allowing quiet ‘mind time’. When I wake up, I am rarely focused on anything other than getting myself out of bed, dressed, and out of the door so as not to cut into my morning routine. This means I have no particular worries about work and my family is all asleep, so there is no admin to deal with either… I prepare my water bottle and gym gear the night before, and so I have very little to think about before stepping out of the door. Most naysayers say they will be too tired, and this is true of those who are night owls, but the sacrifice is going to bed relatively early – say 21:30-22:30 at worst.
If I contrast this with an evening gym session – there are simply too many things which can derail it… for starters, when I have ventured into the gym during the evening (haven’t done so for over 2 years btw!) it is extremely crowded. You typically find yourself waiting around for weights and machines to become available, and it simply isn’t a pleasant experience given the optimal capacity of the gym, vs the number of people who go at this time. Add to this the several external factors that may cause you to skip a training session e.g. working later than planned, family commitments, fatigue from a long day and so on. Finally, having a solid workout increases your blood flow, and raises your energy level – and this means you are likely going to have difficulty sleeping if you get to bed soon after gym. It just makes no sense to do it that way in my opinion.
Anyway… I digress. Back to the ‘mind time’… What I found was on the days where I go to bed late, then struggle to wake up, and end up missing my gym session… my entire day suffers. I have lower energy, poor productivity and my thoughts are somewhat jumbled. I attribute this variation to the ‘mind time’ from gym. Time for the brain to be ‘awake’ but as I describe it… ‘rebooting’… clearing the junk, making a fresh slate for the day, and then being ready to engage when my day begins post-workout.
So that’s my own experience, then I found some TED material to back my theory up… you will find that below. In summary, quiet and contemplative time for yourself is indeed beneficial… its not rocket science, but its nice to have evidence to support a theory – otherwise it remains an opinion!
Does this resonate with you? What is your routine like, and how do you spend your time? Do you set aside some quiet time to be with your thoughts?
Why we owe it to ourselves to spend quiet time alone every day
By not giving ourselves the minutes — or hours — free of devices and distractions, we risk losing our ability to know who we are and what’s important to us, says physicist and writer Alan Lightman.
In 2016, the Harvard biologist emeritus and naturalist E.O. Wilson (TED Talk: Advice to a young scientist) published Half-Earth: Our Planet’s Fight for Life, in which he proposes that half the earth’s surface be designated and protected as conservation land. Just since 1970, human beings have destroyed more than 30 percent of forests and the marine ecosystem, according to the World Wide Fund for Nature. The destruction has been an unintended consequence of population growth, the desire for increased material wealth and comfort, and the associated need for more energy. It’s also been driven by the inexorable imperative of capitalism and the powerful desire of certain individuals to increase their personal wealth. Wilson’s proposal might be difficult to achieve, but it represents a recognition of the importance of our natural environment and the forces that threaten it.
The destruction of our inner selves via the wired world is an even more recent, and more subtle, phenomenon. The loss of slowness, of time for reflection and contemplation, of privacy and solitude, of silence, of the ability to sit quietly in a chair for fifteen minutes without external stimulation — all have happened quickly and almost invisibly. A hundred and fifty years ago, the telephone didn’t exist. Fifty years ago, the Internet didn’t exist. Twenty-five years ago, Google didn’t exist.
The situation is dire. Just as with global warming, we may already be near the point of no return. Invisibly, almost without notice, we are losing ourselves. We are losing our ability to know who we are and what is important to us. We are creating a global machine in which each of us is a mindless and reflexive cog, relentlessly driven by the speed, noise, and artificial urgency of the wired world.
I would like to make a bold proposal: that half our waking minds be designated and saved for quiet reflection.
What can we do? Somehow, we need to create a new habit of mind, as individuals and as a society. We need a mental attitude that values and protects stillness, privacy, solitude, slowness, personal reflection; that honors the inner self; that allows each of us to wander about without schedule within our own minds.
Wilson’s proposal is bold, and I would like to make a similarly bold proposal: that half our waking minds be designated and saved for quiet reflection. Otherwise, we are destroying our inner selves and our creative capacities. Different moments throughout the day can be devoted to contemplation and stillness, free from the external world.
How do we cultivate a contemplative habit of mind? Twenty years ago, a friend who taught high school in Arlington, Massachusetts, started something new with her students. At the beginning of each class, she rang a bell and asked them to remain silent for four minutes. As she wrote later, “I explained [to my students] that I felt our school days were too fast-paced and filled with noise, that silence could help us leave behind the previous class, and prepare to be present for this one. That it was a time to clear our heads. I said we were aiming for internal and external stillness.” The results were miraculous, she told me. Both she and the students were calmer and more centered.
In recent years, numerous organizations — such as Mindful Schools and Mindful Education — have been created to introduce periods of quiet and meditation into primary and secondary schools. For example, in 2015, mind-body educator Stacy Sims started a program called Mindful Music Moments in which students listen to four minutes of classical music during the morning announcement period — similar to the idea of my friend in Massachusetts. Mindful Music Moments now operates in 65 K-12 schools, camps, and social service organizations, most of them in Cincinnati.
Perhaps there could be mandated screen-free zones in public spaces and labor laws that guarantee workers a half hour each day of quiet time at the workplace.
To develop new habits of mind, different groups must use different methods. I have some recommendations, which should be viewed as starting points rather than comprehensive solutions:
• For K-12 students, a ten-minute period of silence sometime during the school day. Students could quietly write down thoughts in a notebook during this time. Different schools have different cultures, and each school will know how best to institute this period of silence.
• For college students, “introspective intensive” courses created by each academic department. Each student would be required to take at least one such course each semester. Introspective courses, while based in the particular subject matter of the department — for example, history or chemistry — would have a reduced load of reading and assignments and encourage students to use the free time to reflect on what they are learning and relate it to their lives and life goals.
• In the workplace, a quiet room or similar space where employees are permitted and encouraged to spend a half hour each day meditating, reflecting, or simply being silent. Smartphones and computers would not be allowed in the quiet room. This period of quiet would not be part of the regular lunch break.
• For families, an unplugged hour during the evening, perhaps during dinner, in which all phones, smartphones, computers, and other devices are turned off. Dinner should be a time for quiet conversation.
• Individuals should think about how they spend their time each day and try to build in a half hour away from the wired world, such as taking a walk while unplugged, reading, or simply sitting quietly.
• For society as a whole, mandated screen-free zones in public spaces, where digital devices are forbidden, and labor laws in which workers are guaranteed a half hour each day of quiet time at the workplace.
Don’t we owe all of our children a world in which their contemplative lives are valued and supported? Don’t we owe it to ourselves?
I believe that we can develop a new habit of mind toward the wired world, but it will take time. We will first need to recognize the danger. Certainly, younger people should take some responsibility for their addiction to the wired world at the expense of their inner selves. But shouldn’t we who created that world take more responsibility? We are victims ourselves, but we are also the perpetrators. Don’t we owe all of our children a world in which their contemplative lives are valued and supported? Don’t we owe it to ourselves?
Although changing habits of mind is difficult, it can be done. With a little determination, each of us can find a half hour a day to waste time. And when we do so, we give ourselves a gift. It is a gift to our spirit. It is an honoring of that quiet, whispering voice. It is a liberation from the cage of the wired world. It is freedom. Decades ago, when I was that boy walking home from school through the woods, following turtles as they slowly lumbered down a dirt path, wasting hours as I watched tadpoles in the shallows or the sway of water grasses in the wind, I was free. We cannot return to that world, nor would we necessarily want to, but we can create some of that space within our world today. We can create a preserve within our own minds.
Excerpted from the new book In Praise of Wasting Time by Alan Lightman. Reprinted with permission from TED Books/Simon & Schuster. © 2018 Alan Lightman.
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